Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Don't be Blind to the Emotional Affair Signs

Romantic relationships are complex affairs simply because human beings are complex creatures. And in almost every relationship, there comes a time when either one of the individuals will observe the Emotional Affair Signs of the other person. With the advent of the Internet where meeting potential partners outside of the relationship is very easy, you will soon find that your partner may be involved in an emotional affair. By then, however, it may be too late to save your relationship.

Definition of an Emotional Affair

It is imperative that you become knowledgeable about the signs of an emotional affair. But first, a definition is in order. An emotional affair occurs when one invests a large part of emotions, thoughts and feelings with somebody outside of the marriage. It is infidelity sans the physical contact but with all the emotional aspects.

Reasons for Knowing the Signs

Despite the absence of physical and sexual contact, you should not be too complacent. If you fail to know of the emotional affair signs, your marriage is in danger, pure and simple. This is because each one of us only has so much emotional energy that we can invest in romantic relationships. The more one spends emotional energy on somebody outside of the marriage, the less one will have inside of it.

Thus, you will find that you and your husband are talking but not sharing. You talk about the kids, the bills and the weather but you do not share your thoughts, emotions and experiences anymore. In the end, your husband has to choose which one he will fully invest his true emotions in. You can save your marriage if he chooses you. However, if he has been too engrossed in the emotional affair, which he probably has been if you have been blind to the signs, he will choose the other woman.

And don't think either that just because it is an emotional affair that it will not progress to a full-blown extramarital affair complete with the sexual aspect. We are social and physical creatures, after all, with the need to combine both in our romantic relationships.

Knowing the Signs

You should know, acknowledge and even confront him with the emotional affair signs early on. This way, you can cut the bud before it blooms, strengthen your own emotional bonds and, hence, save your marriage.

You should seek the help of an expert in knowing the many signs of an emotional affair and then how to save your marriage from its devastating effects. Just to get you started, you should take note of the following:

· You have little to no sex because your husband is always too tired, too busy and too distracted, more likely with his cyber affair.

· You talk but fail to share your emotions, feelings and ideas.

· Your husband suddenly seems very conscious about his appearance even when he is just at home playing with his computer. It is not for your benefit either.

· Your partner uncharacteristically becomes defensive and secretive with his online activities.

If you find Signs He Is Cheating, then you seek help and deal with it now before it is too late.

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